David DeAngelo Undermines Your Progress
Moving Beyond Seduction And "Picking Up" Women
The Way Things Really Are
This Is Not A Fad
Dealing With Bossy And Difficult Women
What If She Resists You?
Debunking Some Dating Myths
Give And Take
What About Long Term Committed Relationships?
Social Status Is Not That Important
It's Not Always Your Fault
Your Best Friend the Hag
Most Damaging PUA Concepts
PUA Methods Create Little Attraction If At All
The first little bit of this last excerpt sounds encouraging enough, but then you read the remainder...
If this doesn't communicate to a male reader that it is ALL up to him (or nearly all up to him) how things turn out with a particular women, then I don't know what does. Seems pretty obvious if you ask me. Now I'll reiterate that not every piece of feedback on TAF is going to blame the guy for things not working out, but it's a fact that the burden is most times placed on the guy to make things happen, not 100% of the burden but most, and certainly much more than his fair share.
January 3, 2011 at 5:47 PM
Rafał said...
No, I do not see ANYTHING in those excerpt referring to any proportions of effort put by a man vs effort put by a woman.
Moving Beyond Seduction And "Picking Up" Women
The Way Things Really Are
This Is Not A Fad
Dealing With Bossy And Difficult Women
What If She Resists You?
Debunking Some Dating Myths
Give And Take
What About Long Term Committed Relationships?
Social Status Is Not That Important
It's Not Always Your Fault
Your Best Friend the Hag
Most Damaging PUA Concepts
PUA Methods Create Little Attraction If At All
The first little bit of this last excerpt sounds encouraging enough, but then you read the remainder...
If this doesn't communicate to a male reader that it is ALL up to him (or nearly all up to him) how things turn out with a particular women, then I don't know what does. Seems pretty obvious if you ask me. Now I'll reiterate that not every piece of feedback on TAF is going to blame the guy for things not working out, but it's a fact that the burden is most times placed on the guy to make things happen, not 100% of the burden but most, and certainly much more than his fair share.
January 3, 2011 at 5:47 PM
Rafał said...
No, I do not see ANYTHING in those excerpt referring to any proportions of effort put by a man vs effort put by a woman.