The Double-Edged Sword
Romancing Your Man
The Day the Lights Went Out
Intimate Talks
A Marriage of Convenience
Right Person Wrong Time
Snooping: A Rant and The Rules
Mr. Should-be Right
1. Signal Him by Smiling for five Seconds
Three seconds is polite. Four is not enough. Five gets attention.
Yes, it’s terrifying. Yes, you feel like you’re inviting him to molest you on the spot. Yes, your armpits are sweating and your lip gets stuck on your tooth … but do it anyway.
A man needs to know you’re interested before he feels safe enough to approach. Men who approach you without being signaled are usually drunks or nerds.
A man who walks across a room to speak to you after you’ve signaled him with a smile is DEFINITELY interested!
2. Don’t Speak First
If you see a man you’re interested in NEVER speak first (unless you want to pick him up, invite him out and pay for it.) (There’s nothing wrong with that … just be conscious.)
If you speak to a man first, not only does it set you up to pursue him … you don’t know if he’s REALLY interested in you or just being polite.
Romancing Your Man
The Day the Lights Went Out
Intimate Talks
A Marriage of Convenience
Right Person Wrong Time
Snooping: A Rant and The Rules
Mr. Should-be Right
1. Signal Him by Smiling for five Seconds
Three seconds is polite. Four is not enough. Five gets attention.
Yes, it’s terrifying. Yes, you feel like you’re inviting him to molest you on the spot. Yes, your armpits are sweating and your lip gets stuck on your tooth … but do it anyway.
A man needs to know you’re interested before he feels safe enough to approach. Men who approach you without being signaled are usually drunks or nerds.
A man who walks across a room to speak to you after you’ve signaled him with a smile is DEFINITELY interested!
2. Don’t Speak First
If you see a man you’re interested in NEVER speak first (unless you want to pick him up, invite him out and pay for it.) (There’s nothing wrong with that … just be conscious.)
If you speak to a man first, not only does it set you up to pursue him … you don’t know if he’s REALLY interested in you or just being polite.