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Crotch Rocket says:
March 20, 2011 at 9:58 pm
“where does that leave the rest of us? The ones who just have a hard time coming across anyone who is somewhat decent?” Here’s the thing: you’re “coming across” all those same someones that “some people” do; you’re just not dating/marrying them because either (A) you don’t want those someones or (B) those someones don’t want you. Notice the common thread there?
I’ve said it numerous times here before, but it bears repeating: Look for the kind of person you want, look at the kind of person they choose, become that kind of person, and they will choose you. If you’re not willing/able to do that, then you need to learn to want something different or accept being single forever. It’s that simple.
Indeed, everything you said is true. It’s almost natural and automatic to see what these signs mean. But sometimes the truth is a hard pill to swallow. we keep hoping it’s just a fluke, the exception to the rule, or that there is a perfectly good misunderstanding. It is possible one of the above could be the case, but probably not when ALL of the symptoms are present. The best gauge to use is, (if you’re divorced) compare him to how well your ex treated you. Very few women marry men that that can’t make themselves available to them. If he likes you, he’ll call. And want to see you. It’s so obvious.
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Eight Don’ts of Dating
eHarmony Falls Flat
Dreams About the Person You Love
DOs and DON'Ts for Facebook Romance
Eight Tips for Living Together to Keep You Staying Together
The Elevated Perspective on Dating: Tips for Tall Women
How to Know You Are Not His Girlfriend
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Crotch Rocket says:
March 20, 2011 at 9:58 pm
“where does that leave the rest of us? The ones who just have a hard time coming across anyone who is somewhat decent?” Here’s the thing: you’re “coming across” all those same someones that “some people” do; you’re just not dating/marrying them because either (A) you don’t want those someones or (B) those someones don’t want you. Notice the common thread there?
I’ve said it numerous times here before, but it bears repeating: Look for the kind of person you want, look at the kind of person they choose, become that kind of person, and they will choose you. If you’re not willing/able to do that, then you need to learn to want something different or accept being single forever. It’s that simple.
Indeed, everything you said is true. It’s almost natural and automatic to see what these signs mean. But sometimes the truth is a hard pill to swallow. we keep hoping it’s just a fluke, the exception to the rule, or that there is a perfectly good misunderstanding. It is possible one of the above could be the case, but probably not when ALL of the symptoms are present. The best gauge to use is, (if you’re divorced) compare him to how well your ex treated you. Very few women marry men that that can’t make themselves available to them. If he likes you, he’ll call. And want to see you. It’s so obvious.
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