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Vox says:
September 5, 2011 at 10:52 am
Or that he had a bad day. I wouldn’t write off a guy after one instance. Two? three? Yeah.
So if a guy acts like this on the third date, and never asks you out again, you’d keep asking him out? Because that’s what happened in the OPs story. If he just had a bad day, he would have asked her out again and he would have apologized for having an off night. The OPs guy didn’t do that. He acted as though he didn’t like her, and she was the one to pursue him in response. He was done with her after the 3rd date, and she responded by asking him about again and having sex with him. That’s her fault, not his.
Yes, it seems as though he was into her on the first couple of dates. So it goes, we often like people on the first couple of dates then things fizzle. Again, if you keep chasing a man who isn’t that into you, all while he continues to treat you like crap, that’s your fault, not his.
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Paula says:
September 5, 2011 at 12:28 pm
Here’s what the OP said:
>>>Our third date was not quite as smooth. He was a bit moody and distant at the start, but bounced back towards the end of the evening. I didn’t read much into it at first. The next time we met we had sex (I had been by this point fantasizing about sex with him), and the evening ended with a long stroll through the neighborhood and more wonderful conversation.
I’m not sure where the “she asked him out on the 4th date” came from. She didn’t say that, as far as I understood it. She said that he started the 3rd date moody but bounced back, and that she had a great time with him on date 4 (which included sex and walking and conversation).
In Online Matchmaking, Make Them See ‘Red’
Is he cheating on you? Let’s deal it…
Is It Lust, Love, Or All Of The Above?
Is Marriage the Only Acceptable Goal of Dating?
Is Your New Relationship Toxic?
It’s 2am! Don’t Answer That Text Message!
“It’s gone again.”
Vox says:
September 5, 2011 at 10:52 am
Or that he had a bad day. I wouldn’t write off a guy after one instance. Two? three? Yeah.
So if a guy acts like this on the third date, and never asks you out again, you’d keep asking him out? Because that’s what happened in the OPs story. If he just had a bad day, he would have asked her out again and he would have apologized for having an off night. The OPs guy didn’t do that. He acted as though he didn’t like her, and she was the one to pursue him in response. He was done with her after the 3rd date, and she responded by asking him about again and having sex with him. That’s her fault, not his.
Yes, it seems as though he was into her on the first couple of dates. So it goes, we often like people on the first couple of dates then things fizzle. Again, if you keep chasing a man who isn’t that into you, all while he continues to treat you like crap, that’s your fault, not his.
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Paula says:
September 5, 2011 at 12:28 pm
Here’s what the OP said:
>>>Our third date was not quite as smooth. He was a bit moody and distant at the start, but bounced back towards the end of the evening. I didn’t read much into it at first. The next time we met we had sex (I had been by this point fantasizing about sex with him), and the evening ended with a long stroll through the neighborhood and more wonderful conversation.
I’m not sure where the “she asked him out on the 4th date” came from. She didn’t say that, as far as I understood it. She said that he started the 3rd date moody but bounced back, and that she had a great time with him on date 4 (which included sex and walking and conversation).